Monday, February 16, 2009

What is love?

Guys do you know what is love??? Or do you guys ever experience love???? Love can hurt you the most and make the deepest cut in your heart and leave a scar on it but love can also heal your heart. Is it true??? Can anyone really prove it??? 

Greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one's life for his friends.

Well what is love?

LOVE is when you can SAY to someone, "I LOVE YOU!"
LOVE is when you get to HOLD someone's hands.
LOVE is when you can TALK on the phone for hours.
LOVE is when you give a HUG to someone.
LOVE is when you got to ACCOMPANY her for shopping for hours
LOVE is when you GIVE someone a massage.
LOVE is when you SHOW someone you care!
LOVE is a GOOD feeling.
LOVE is EMOTIONAL and SWEEPS me off my feet!
LOVE is a GOOD feeling.
LOVE is UNEXPLAINABLY MAGICAL!
LOVE is LAUGHING and CRYING together.
LOVE is buying presents.
LOVE is CARRYING each other's burden.
LOVE is LENDING someone your shoulder!
LOVE is GENEROUS!
LOVE is APPRECIATIVE!
LOVE is TRANS-ETHICNITY!
LOVE is TRANS-GEOGRAFICAL!
LOVE is TRANS-GENERATION!
LOVE is COLOR-BLIND!
LOVE is FOOD to the soul!

LOVE is to care and to concern, to show respect to each other and to enjoy cheerfulness and hapiness together with the one you love..... 
LOVE have so many kinds of love whether couple love, parents love, friendship love, pet's love and etc....
HOW DO LOVE APPEARED AND HOW DO IT WORK???
LOVE does'nt come by force nor by luck... LOVE come naturally, LOVE come with time just like when a baby was born he felt everyone is a stranger to him, he is alieanated but what make him bond with her parents??? Is time that we dedicated to the baby, the time we sacrify, the way we raise him up, the time you being together with him, the time when the baby wake you at night you did't angry but with a smile and care and said "DON"T CRY MUMMY AND DADDY IS HERE"! the effort we put in it and thats when the love start to grow.. when the baby recognised love and when the baby felt protected in ones hug is all because of the feeling of love..... LOVE need time to grow with and need time to make sure we are familiar with the one we love around us.... LOVE grows when we share the same passion, share the same food, do the things together, share the burden and every relationship that end with faliure is because of one main thing that is communication.

The word "communicate" in Greek is the word "koinonia" which means fellowship.
communication with your partner or the one you love is important as understanding means that you guys will have no problem to live together but if your communication have a problem and thats all the problem started misunderstanding...

DO YOU KNOW GUYS THERE ARE 5 POWER OF WORDS
i.  WORDS go DEEP into a person's SOUL.
ii. WORDS can BREAK a person.
iii. WORDS GUIDE our LIVES.
iv. WORDS have great DESTRUCTIVE power.
v.  WORDS DETERMINE the RELATIONSHIP.

Well some idioms said that a word is mightier than a sword

"There is one who speaks like piercings of a sword, but the tongue of the wise promotes health"

well boys and girls to have a good relationship and maintaining it you need to understand them and here the question HOW MAN AND WOMAN ARE WIRED?

Well man are like RUBBER BANDS...why???
because man will need sometimes to be alone and not to be stick together all the time as they have their private times too.... but one thing best about man is that they will start from where they stop.. for example when they stop at stage 3 they will continue back stage 4 and so woman out there do not over occupied your man times as if a rubber band get to tense you will know what will happen thats is break. BUT when you sometimes open your hand it will be back the old shape and the man will love you more than ever before....

Woman are like waves???
because they will have high wave when everything becomes joy and happy and the peak of the moment but every peak they will be the down fall of a woman and the boys will felt weird and dunno what happen their girl friend just shout and said wana break up and what the boys will do is just said "WHAT DID I DO WRONG WOH?!?" and thats all breakup starts... boys perfect tips is that every girls emotion is just like the econpmy of the world... the chart will be up and down then to the peak and drop to the lowest point but what can you guys do to prevent it... answer is do nothing.. as nothing can prevent them.... on the lowest point girls will think back their deepest sorrow and everything start to appear back bad memories..... and boys remember one think resist the temptation to provide solution althought how smart are you... just listen to them.. yes listen is all the girls need and after a while their stock just like been inject with extra money and raise to the peak again... remember guys... you can't prevent the waves in the girls life but you can always surf with the waves.......

Hope all the guys and girls out there understand your partner and everything will have  agood ending and remember when you guys end up in a marriage is not happily ever after but a new begining in life with the new one you love and remember that there will be no more single live but you will need to do everything with the person and in years time another person in your life too...

REMEMBER LOVE is to concern, share and to communicate, guard your love one, and love need time to grow.. if you in a relationship tolerate your partner and don't ever change them but let your love make them change.. love a person is with who they are and not love the person that who you want.....

1001 gurauan belum tentu mengukir satu semyuman
tetapi hanya satu sindiran sudah cukup melukakan hati seseorang
dan hanya dengan kasih sayang sudah cukup untuk membuktikan 
saya sayang kepada mu... I LOVE YOU.....

to all couples out there happy valentine

1 comment:

  1. Cheh, you use what church teaching by Pastor Kevin to put geh... ahah

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